Re: LGBTQIA+ - The Communal Topic

by Becca Wed Feb 10, 2016 11:14 pm

xiph wrote:
Becca wrote:
Quillan wrote:
xiph wrote:hey yo idk if this counts as off site advertising but some shapeshifters inc binders are on sale until the 14th -- 20% off. just posting bc i would leap at this opportunity if the shipping to the uk wasn't so expensive !!
also if any of my fellow uk cuties know any good/reputable binder brands based in europe that'd be amazing

i can't post a link bc of the new member rules but here's the url !!
shapeshiftersinc.storenvy.com/products/13325667-stripes-and-rainbows
crying becoz i want to buy binders so bad but broke atm and my boobs are too big to be bound.... rip x.x
I feel you cry. I wanted to invest in a binder but I can't find any that are big enough for me lol.
aah babe i know shapeshifters cut them individually? i.e. you give them your measurements?
i bought a rubbish £5 one from ebay and i'm a d-dd and it gets me to to a b-a, which i'm better with, so hopefully when i can get the money for a binder from a reputable company i'll be able to get a better one?

Honestly I'd be perfectly content if I could manage to get mine down to a DD, they're so big that they cause me random back pains + everyone always assumes I'm a girl because of how large and obvious they are lol.

by xiph Wed Feb 10, 2016 11:27 pm

Becca wrote:Honestly I'd be perfectly content if I could manage to get mine down to a DD, they're so big that they cause me random back pains + everyone always assumes I'm a girl because of how large and obvious they are lol.

aah babe<//3
i have a trans bud who is a ddd and he said that this binder worked wonders for him, and that he originally ordered an xl but exchanged it for an l
saying that tho, i'm not sure what the import fees from the usa to france are ! he also "doubles" his binders by getting one that is shirt length and folding the bottom back up to the top, to have two layers of compression?
if you want i could go and pester him for any tips he may have for you? ;^**

by Becca Wed Feb 10, 2016 11:33 pm

xiph wrote:
Becca wrote:Honestly I'd be perfectly content if I could manage to get mine down to a DD, they're so big that they cause me random back pains + everyone always assumes I'm a girl because of how large and obvious they are lol.
aah babe<//3
i have a trans bud who is a ddd and he said that this binder worked wonders for him, and that he originally ordered an xl but exchanged it for an l
saying that tho, i'm not sure what the import fees from the usa to france are ! he also "doubles" his binders by getting one that is shirt length and folding the bottom back up to the top, to have two layers of compression?
if you want i could go and pester him for any tips he may have for you? ;^**

Awe thank you.<3 I'm honestly fine with having boobs, I just want a binder to just like. Make them appear like they're a reasonable size I guess???? Like my bust is a 46F so it's just. They're so obvious that it's impossible to hide them, I just want something to make them seem smaller so people don't just automatically deem me a girl because of how large they are/assume they're fake lol. I also live in the US, so the exchange rates don't matter for me!

by Katattack Wed Feb 10, 2016 11:40 pm

Becca wrote:
Like my bust is a 46F so it's just.

Omg....thank you for your service. I'm a DD and I can't even imagine being bigger...these things are a pain in the neck!

by Becca Wed Feb 10, 2016 11:52 pm

Katattack wrote:
Becca wrote:
Like my bust is a 46F so it's just.

Omg....thank you for your service. I'm a DD and I can't even imagine being bigger...these things are a pain in the neck!

I was a DD for around a year when my boobs first started coming in, and then they came in hard between the ages of 14-15. It's a struggle finding clothing to fit them lol. Since I mostly wear sweatshirts, I always have to go into the Men's section because the women's are always way way way too small for them.

by **Quillan** Mon Feb 15, 2016 8:46 pm

I need to rant a little bit because I just went to an event that had: "I boot transgenders" in the descrip. So I went because the person that made the event was on my FL and I thought he was chill. So like a flaming dipshit I went and there was so much discrimination it made me sick. They were telling me that I am an "it" and that I have a mental illness for wanting to be a different gender than what I was born with. I told them they did not have to agree with it but to just atleast respect my pronouns. Anyways they all booted and blocked me. Ugh I hate people. ourWorld is so sickening to me now.

by Aeri Mon Feb 15, 2016 8:57 pm

Quillan wrote:

i cant think of very good words of encouragement rn, but you are you and theres nothing wrong with that. your body is perfect, your pronouns/identity is valid and being transgender is not a mental illness, but transphobia is a bigoted state of mind. you are you and there's nothing more beautiful than that.

by Yuunachi Mon Feb 15, 2016 9:35 pm

Aeri wrote:

i cant think of very good words of encouragement rn, but you are you and theres nothing wrong with that. your body is perfect, your pronouns/identity is valid and being transgender is not a mental illness, but transphobia is a bigoted state of mind. you are you and there's nothing more beautiful than that.

agreed with everything aeri said, you are absolutely fantastic and if people can't respect you and your pronouns then that's their problem not your's and you're better off without them in your life spewing toxicity

by **Quillan** Wed Feb 17, 2016 8:34 pm

Lil rant coz I am sooooo excited rn I am so giddy like a little kid. I AM GETTING MY LONG GIRLY HAIR CHOPPED OFF ON FRIDAY! AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's happening!!! I am starting to feel really comfortable with who I want to be. Sorry I just needed to express my excitement.

by Aeri Wed Feb 17, 2016 8:41 pm

Quillan wrote:Lil rant coz I am sooooo excited rn I am so giddy like a little kid. I AM GETTING MY LONG GIRLY HAIR CHOPPED OFF ON FRIDAY! AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's happening!!! I am starting to feel really comfortable with who I want to be. Sorry I just needed to express my excitement.

so happy for you babe!!! im going to cut off my waist-length hair soon too for a masculine hairstyle and i cant wait

if youre comfortable id/wed lOVE to see pics when its done but if not thats fine!!! love to see you getting more comfortable w yourself

by Yuunachi Wed Feb 17, 2016 10:38 pm

Quillan wrote:Lil rant coz I am sooooo excited rn I am so giddy like a little kid. I AM GETTING MY LONG GIRLY HAIR CHOPPED OFF ON FRIDAY! AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's happening!!! I am starting to feel really comfortable with who I want to be. Sorry I just needed to express my excitement.

that's awesome!!! so happy for you!!! <33

by xiph Thu Feb 18, 2016 8:47 am

Quillan wrote:Lil rant coz I am sooooo excited rn I am so giddy like a little kid. I AM GETTING MY LONG GIRLY HAIR CHOPPED OFF ON FRIDAY! AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's happening!!! I am starting to feel really comfortable with who I want to be. Sorry I just needed to express my excitement.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm so pumped for you
send me hot pics via kik or smmt b

by **Quillan** Thu Feb 18, 2016 7:40 pm

I feel like I am spamming on this topic...but I finally worked up to coming out to my therapist as pan-sapio sexual, demi-romantic, transgender. I am on a role this week I suppose? Next step is coming out to the family...

by Aeri Thu Feb 18, 2016 7:41 pm

Quillan wrote:I feel like I am spamming on this topic...but I finally worked up to coming out to my therapist as pan-sapio sexual, demi-romantic, transgender. I am on a role this week I suppose? Next step is coming out to the family...

lUV U PROUD KISS KISS GOOD LUCK < 3

by xiph Thu Feb 18, 2016 7:57 pm

Quillan wrote:I feel like I am spamming on this topic...but I finally worked up to coming out to my therapist as pan-sapio sexual, demi-romantic, transgender. I am on a role this week I suppose? Next step is coming out to the family...

KISS KISS I LOVE YOU MY SWEET PRINCE
SO PROUD OF U <3333333333333333333

by Yuunachi Thu Feb 18, 2016 9:07 pm

!!! PROUD OF U QUILL YEAAAAAA my little duckling growing up so fast :'^)

by xiph Mon Mar 21, 2016 12:47 pm

so most people know abt my huge crush on amandla stenberg
she's an outspoken, bisexual, feminist poc and i'm extremely gay for her and i always have been
she just Came Out as non binary !!! and by just i mean like 2 weeks ago but i only just found out but !! this is huge to me !! someone so well known coming out as enby is so important to me - yes, it's amazing that lilly and others are coming out as trans women, but in general i feel that that's more well known to ""real"" (read: outside the internet) people than being non binary is and hopefully this'll being more recognition to non binary genders and validate it in the eyes of anyone who may be critical, as well as spreading recognition !!
this is a long ramble but im !! so happy !!!! and i needed to share

by Yuunachi Mon Mar 21, 2016 6:38 pm

xiph wrote:so most people know abt my huge crush on amandla stenberg
she's an outspoken, bisexual, feminist poc and i'm extremely gay for her and i always have been
she just Came Out as non binary !!! and by just i mean like 2 weeks ago but i only just found out but !! this is huge to me !! someone so well known coming out as enby is so important to me - yes, it's amazing that lilly and others are coming out as trans women, but in general i feel that that's more well known to ""real"" (read: outside the internet) people than being non binary is and hopefully this'll being more recognition to non binary genders and validate it in the eyes of anyone who may be critical, as well as spreading recognition !!
this is a long ramble but im !! so happy !!!! and i needed to share

thats great!!!! happy for you and them!!!

by Yuunachi Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:52 pm

just want to announce that i am gay
very gay

by Aeri Tue Mar 22, 2016 10:18 pm

Yuunachi wrote:just want to announce that i am gay
very gay

fu cki ng nkewwwwwww it!?!!?!?!?!111

uR s0 gayY it hUrtzzzz

by xiph Thu Mar 31, 2016 3:58 pm

happy trans day of visibility babes !!!!
also i lost one of my 5 friends bc his mum is homophobic so he's not allowed to talk to me anymore oops

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